How do you make a romantic dinner table?

Which plate should you clear first?

Remove serving platters first, then plates, and then silverware. In general, clear the largest items from the table first, and work your way down to the smallest items.

What is the first thing you should do when setting the table?

The first and basic rule to get you started is: Utensils are placed in the order of use; from the outside in. A second rule, with only a few exceptions, is: Forks go to the left of the plate, and knives and spoons go to the right. (The oyster fork is the only fork placed to the right of the setting if it will be used.)